I'd like to create a thread here where people can bring up things they do/have done in their sex lives and have always wondered if loads of people do it or are they really freaky?
I have several such questions (as I don't talk sex with any of my friends, really) and so, since we're all open here, let's ask questions like that and see what people say.
Here's my first one:
Daring her not to come
Before I even start, I know this has to be a rare thing as the media tells me there are loads of women in the world who find it hard to orgasm. In fact I've been with a few! Not so my special lady who is incredibly orgasmic. This isn't (all) down to me. It's mostly due to what must be incredible nerve endings in her body.
Here's an example of a particularly good experience. Last week, after some nice foreplay, we got round to properly shagging. Just as that started, my phone rang, and I ignored it (obviously). She came 12 times (I counted) and, after the 11th, started begging me to come, saying she was tired and was already "tightening up". I wasn't really near but I relented and finished (and she had her 12th). As she popped off to clean things up, I glanced at the phone and noticed the time of the missed call. It had been just nine minutes before!
That's how orgasmic she is.
Anyway, sometimes as combination of wanting things to last longer and also wanting to see her struggle with her own willpower, I dare her not to cum until I do.
It's such a delicious sight. For the first while, she scrunches up her face and I get to hear her try and control her breathing. As we get in to it, she becomes very vocal, which isn't normal for her during the super-orgasmic shags! She keeps moaning things like "it's so difficult" and "you're so cruel".
We don't do it that often, perhaps every couple of months or so, but she does love it. When she finally does get to cum, she says it's like her normal orgasm x 10. :) We both agree though that it's a rare treat which, if we did it all the time, would probably lose its appeal.
How novel are we?
Also, anyone else have questions like this they've always wanted to ask? Please feel free!
I have several such questions (as I don't talk sex with any of my friends, really) and so, since we're all open here, let's ask questions like that and see what people say.
Here's my first one:
Daring her not to come
Before I even start, I know this has to be a rare thing as the media tells me there are loads of women in the world who find it hard to orgasm. In fact I've been with a few! Not so my special lady who is incredibly orgasmic. This isn't (all) down to me. It's mostly due to what must be incredible nerve endings in her body.
Here's an example of a particularly good experience. Last week, after some nice foreplay, we got round to properly shagging. Just as that started, my phone rang, and I ignored it (obviously). She came 12 times (I counted) and, after the 11th, started begging me to come, saying she was tired and was already "tightening up". I wasn't really near but I relented and finished (and she had her 12th). As she popped off to clean things up, I glanced at the phone and noticed the time of the missed call. It had been just nine minutes before!
That's how orgasmic she is.
Anyway, sometimes as combination of wanting things to last longer and also wanting to see her struggle with her own willpower, I dare her not to cum until I do.
It's such a delicious sight. For the first while, she scrunches up her face and I get to hear her try and control her breathing. As we get in to it, she becomes very vocal, which isn't normal for her during the super-orgasmic shags! She keeps moaning things like "it's so difficult" and "you're so cruel".
We don't do it that often, perhaps every couple of months or so, but she does love it. When she finally does get to cum, she says it's like her normal orgasm x 10. :) We both agree though that it's a rare treat which, if we did it all the time, would probably lose its appeal.
How novel are we?
Also, anyone else have questions like this they've always wanted to ask? Please feel free!